Reflections on Youth: Advice from a 30-Year-Old Self to 18-Year-Old Self

Reflecting back to my 18 years of age, I realize that focusing on the wrong things can be a huge time and money drain in life. Instead, I would advise to seek out healthy, natural methods to balance oneself, such as anti-androgen herbs, which can help in managing the sex drive.

The Power of Perspective

First and foremost, I would sit next to my 18-year-old self and say, 'Everything is a matter of perspective.' At that time, I felt that the world was dull, full of stupid people, and bigoted. I craved for something better, but I didn't know what that was. As I couldn't see anything better, I started to hate everything around me.

Now, I see that the main issue was not about the world itself, but my own perspective. If I could sit next to myself and tell myself to find beauty and build an environment that made me and others feel comfortable, I would likely have avoided a lot of the negative emotions and loneliness that I felt back then.

Potential and Action

Another piece of advice I would give is to understand that I was not aware of my true potential. If I had decided to reflect on my actions, learn from my mistakes, and strive to improve every day, I would have done things that only a few would have. This would have made me a better person and eventually, it would have paid off.

Environment and Mindset

In Austria, as I was then, there were many negative people. My advice would be to focus on creating something new rather than fighting or trying to change them. If they do not ask for it, leave them. Focus on your own path and let them remain where they are.

Moreover, I would tell my 18-year-old self that drinking alcohol and smoking is another way to channel anger. Instead, I should have channeled this energy into more productive activities like working out. Such activities can be a healthy way to cope with loneliness and to break out of one's shell, rather than damaging one's health or leading to more isolation.

Patience and Rationality

Patience and rationality are key to success. There are many easy ways to get rich, but they require patience and a clear understanding of the economy and investment rules. As I was smart and skilled, all I needed to do was apply these skills wisely. The pursuit of material success is important, but it should never come at the cost of mental and physical health.

Finally, advice on relationships. Not all women are worth the effort, and some are. I should not waste time on those who are not. Instead, I should be patient and trust that the right woman will come when the time is right. Some success in life comes from the ability to live in the moment, to relax, and to enjoy the presence of someone without constantly trying to prove something.

Lastly, I would advise to judge people by their actions, not just their words. Talking is easy, but actions speak louder. People who talk but don't follow through are often not worth the effort to get to know.