Starting Your Journey Towards a Better Life in Your 20s
Have you ever felt like you haven’t achieved anything in your life yet, especially when you are in your 20s? This is a common feeling for many young adults, and it’s perfectly normal. However, it’s important to understand that a good life is not solely measured by achievements. Here are some steps you can take to find purpose and make your life better.
Understanding the Importance of a Purposeful Life
A life without purpose can feel empty and unfulfilling. Many find fulfillment through their faith, but for others, it might come from pursuing their passions, finding a career they love, or contributing to society in meaningful ways. If you find that you haven’t achieved anything significant yet, it’s a chance to rethink your goals and figure out what truly brings you joy and satisfaction.
Exploring Faith to Find Guidance
For those looking to find a deeper purpose, exploring faith can be a powerful path. The book of John in the Bible, particularly Chapter 3, is often used as a central theme to explore the concept of being "born again." This idea can resonate with many as it emphasizes a personal transformation that leads to a more fulfilling life. Here are some key verses to consider:
“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son. And this is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God.” - John 3:17-21
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.” - John 3:16-18
These verses introduce the concept of repentance and becoming “born again,” which can guide you in finding a purpose that resonates with your values. Take time to reflect on your actions and seek ways to live a life that is pleasing to God. As stated in 1 John 3:7-10, it’s important to recognize and repent of your sins, as God has made a provision for this through His grace.
“For everyone who sins is proclaiming that he is born of the devil, because his desires are controlled by the devil’s desires. This is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we please God: by putting to death the deeds of the body. Anyone who belongs to God bears evidence for God by keeping your word. The one who speaks against God is he who does evil; the one who does what is right reflects God’s will. We know that we belong to God and that he has given us eternal life, and we are sure of this because we are living in the love of God. The love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” - 1 John 3:8-10
Reflect on these teachings and consider how they can guide you in living a life that pleases God. Additionally, consider the importance of good works in showing the change that has been made in your life, as seen in James 2:14-24.
“What use is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food, and one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace, keep warm and eat your fill,’ but does nothing to help them, how is that different from if someone claims to have faith but has no works? Can that faith save them? Suppose a brother or sister is poorly dressed and in need of daily food. If one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace, be warmed and filled,’ without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.” - James 2:14-17
Finally, consider the importance of sharing your faith, as seen in Romans 10:9-13.
“If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. As the Scripture says, 'Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.' For with your heart you believe and are justified, and with your mouth you confess and are saved.” - Romans 10:9-10
While these religious teachings can provide significant guidance, they are not the only paths to finding purpose. Next, we explore secular ways to find your purpose and make your life better.
Exploring Career Paths and Personal Interests
Another way to find purpose is to explore your career and personal interests. The book "What Color is My Rainbow" can be a useful resource to help you discover what might be the best job for you. Reading this book and writing down the things you loved to do as a child can help you identify potential career paths based on your passions and experiences.
If you are considering joining the military, it’s worth noting that this option can teach you self-discipline, a critical skill for success. Military training and education can also transfer into civilian jobs and potentially earn college credits or a technical degree. Additionally, military service can provide a sense of purpose and community that you may find fulfilling.
Developing Self-Discipline and Setting Goals
No matter which path you choose, self-discipline is key to achieving your goals. Schedule time for exercise, reading, and other activities that support your personal development. Waking up early and making time for education can help you build the self-discipline you need to succeed.
Consider setting specific goals and creating a personal development plan. Remember that career changes and personal growth often take time. Every bit of education and training you receive can help you later in life. If you struggle with self-discipline, consider finding a mentor or a coach who can guide you.
Conclusion
At 23, you have the opportunity to find your true purpose and make your life better. Whether through faith, self-discovery, or career development, there are many ways to achieve fulfillment and success. Take the time to explore your interests, set goals, and develop the skills you need to thrive. Remember, a life that is well-lived is one that is lived with purpose and meaning.